Until recently the locus of sexual fantasy was peopled with images actually glimpsed or were sensations actually felt, or private imaginings taken from suggestions in the real world, a dream well where weightless images from it floated, transformed by imagination. It prepared children, with these hints and traces of other people's bodies, to become adults and enter the landscape of adult sexuality and meet the lover face to face. Lucky men and women are able to keep a pathway clear to that dream well, peopling it with scenes and images that meet them as they get older, created with their own bodies mingling with other bodies; they choose a lover because of a smell from a coat, a way of walking, the shape of a lip, belong in their imagined interior and resonate back in time deep into the bones that recall childhood and early adolescent imagination. Naomi Wolf
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Sexual fantasies are the thoughts that go through the mind when we think about sex. For many people, at least some sexual thoughts and fantasies are not only normal, but also help us to explore and understand our sexuality. But for others, these thoughts and fantasies may take over and begin to interfere with their daily lives and relationships. The advent of internet pornography has often been blamed as an obstacle in helping people to understand their sexuality.

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